Help with toddler!!!?

Your not a bad mom first of all and of he barely started its probably just a faze my daughter throws tantrums and starts crying at the top of her lungs if she doesnt get her way I've noticed that if I scream at her or say something before she has not calmed down she'll just keep it up wait till he calms down and even if he hasnt after five min. tell him in a neutral tone what he did wrong and for next time to just ask it seems to work althought she does go back sometimes to the same rouine we got to remember theyre still kids it also helps if you talk to men in his life and ask them when your not around to mention good things about you and that he should pay attention to you after all they are his role models. Hope this helps...dont worry.