Should i transfer to a university this fal? or keep taking cles at the community college?

That is one saaaad story. The only way for you to get out of this rut is to stop sitting at home and go out and do something. Get a hobby, job, or something. You are in the prime of your life and should be enjoying life to the fullest. You get out of life what you put in and frankly you are not putting that much in. I would go to the university if I were you. Not only because it will increase your chances for success, but it will increase your opportunities. Just remeber... going to a university doesn't ensure you a social life. You need to live in the dorms and meet some people. You don't want to live this way the rest of your life. There is no excuse for being boring with so much in this world to enjoy. Make the most out of every situation and get out there and enjoy life.